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"In an era where hardcore pornography is more readily available than ever before, there's an entire generation growing up that believes that what you see in hardcore pornography is the way you have sex."

In 2009, Cindy Gallop spoke at TED about her direct personal experience of technology's impact on hardcore pornography and the impact on our sex lives and launched 


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